tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16491178.post13890899771440732..comments2023-10-30T06:00:19.310-04:00Comments on The Grind: The UnattainableMiss Joi aka The JRW Group, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06180739261673281397noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16491178.post-44129316368285116122008-10-24T23:34:00.000-04:002008-10-24T23:34:00.000-04:00You couldn't have said it better. Your fear of com...You couldn't have said it better. Your fear of commitment and true intimacy is just as real as his. Like attracts like. You're just as unattainable as he is. There's probably some poor guy you rejected or pulled the disappearing act on..is on some other blog wondering why women don't like nice men, they claim they want one. I honestly believe you can't have a fullfilling relationship until you so cliche..but yes, love yourself, mature emotionally, and do some introspection observe some unhealthy patterns in relationships, not just men, family, friends, and actually yes CHANGE the way you view yourself and how you feel you should be treated to more positive patterns. Then you'll be able to appreciate and open yourself to someone who's a great guy, comes with no complications, instead of thinking it's not fun if it comes easy. What's not fun is being lonely, and perpetually single and crying and stressed out, rejected over the unattainalbe man.My3centshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17375452928739593645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16491178.post-4258280383105014962008-05-15T17:36:00.000-04:002008-05-15T17:36:00.000-04:00My 2 cents is that this has something to do with y...My 2 cents is that this has something to do with you not wanting to get hurt, so you get smitten with men who'll never commit, which of course, keeps you from having to commit. The problem is, you still get emotionally attached, even if just a little, so you still end up unhappy. 40+ year old men who date women in their early and mid 20s have issues of their own and should prob not be in your consideration set.<BR/><BR/>I'm just sayin'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16491178.post-574468596832685442008-05-12T13:43:00.000-04:002008-05-12T13:43:00.000-04:00Hey Girl.....this is some good stuff, very enterta...Hey Girl.....this is some good stuff, very entertaining!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16491178.post-77030328806409432112008-05-10T22:49:00.000-04:002008-05-10T22:49:00.000-04:00Painter?????Painter?????ConfessionsOf.a.GyPsyChildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01857596821312008002noreply@blogger.com